In the right hands, technology can be used for good. In the wrong hands it can be used for unspeakable acts. Unfortunately, perpetrators of domestic abuse have found ways to exploit technology to further control and torment their victims. The question is, what can victims do from a legal standpoint to prevent the abuse? Here’s some guidance to help you stop digital domestic abuse.

What is digital domestic abuse?

It’s perpetrators of domestic abuse using technology to inflict more misery on their victims whether it’s to…

  • Control
  • Harass
  • Intimidate
  • Harm

… a partner or family member.

 It’s also known as tech-enabled abuse or electronic abuse.

What technology are we talking about?

A woman holding a chalk board sign saying it's time to talk about it referring to digital domestic abuse.

From surveillance tech to spyware apps and social media to emails, digital domestic abuse is increasing with more and more victims every year. While new laws have been put in place to tackle the issue, it seems the problem is getting worse.

That’s because in most cases digital domestic abuse is harder to trace. And with so many tech options available to abusers to inflict more misery, it’s harder to stop. Here are some examples of the technology abusers are exploiting:

#1 – Surveillance technology

Perhaps the most common method of digital domestic abuse is the use of surveillance technology. Perpetrators can install hidden cameras, GPS trackers or spyware on victims’ devices to track their every movement.

Not only does this invade a victim’s privacy but it also creates an atmosphere of fear and control.

#2 – Social media

Social media is another avenue for abuse. Perpetrators may use various online social channels to stalk, harass, or publicly shame their victims. They might create fake profiles to impersonate a victim or spread false information, damaging their reputation, and exacerbating the emotional toll of the abuse.

In some cases, explicit content, such as intimate photos or videos (commonly known as revenge porn), may be used as a tool of coercion. Perpetrators may threaten to share these materials online or with friends and family, exploiting the fear of public humiliation to maintain control over the victim.

#3 – Email and messaging apps

Perpetrators can weaponise emails and messaging apps by inundating their victims with threatening messages, explicit content, or manipulative communication to instil fear and maintain control. Plus, they may use technology to isolate victims from their support networks by controlling or blocking their access to friends and family.

#4 – Online banking

Technology is increasingly being used to inflict financial abuse. A perpetrator may gain access to a victim’s financial information, control their online accounts, or even steal their identity, leaving the victim financially dependent and vulnerable.

#5 – Smart home devices

More homes are using smart devices. Things like smart thermostats, lights and security systems can be remotely controlled, which means perpetrators can manipulate them to instil a sense of powerlessness in their victims.

What can be done legally to stop digital domestic abuse?

A woman holds her head in her hands.

There are several ways that digital domestic abuse sufferers can protect themselves. Here are some steps that can be taken:

  • Document the abuse

Keep detailed records of abusive messages, emails, or any digital communication. Take screenshots and save any relevant information, including dates and times. This documentation can serve as crucial evidence in legal proceedings.

  • Get a restraining order

Depending on the jurisdiction, victims can seek a restraining order or protection order against the perpetrator. This legal document can prohibit the abuser from contacting or approaching the victim, whether in person or online.

  • Report to the police

If the abuse involves explicit threats, stalking, or harassment, it’s essential to report the incidents to local law enforcement. Provide them with the documented evidence and any other relevant information.

  • Cybercrime reporting

Report the digital abuse to relevant cybercrime units or online platforms. Many social media platforms and websites have mechanisms for reporting harassment, impersonation, or other forms of digital abuse. Additionally, reporting to cybercrime units can trigger investigations into more serious offenses.

  • Consult with a family lawyer

Seek legal advice from a family lawyer specialising in domestic abuse. Alternatively, you can seek legal from a technology lawyer. They can provide guidance on the specific laws applicable and help you understand your rights and options.

  • Seek a divorce or legal separation

In cases where the abuse is within a marriage or partnership, seeking a divorce or legal separation may be a necessary step to break ties with the perpetrator legally.

The way domestic abuse is inflicted is changing

Specialist digital domestic abuse lawyer for Holland Family Law, Alexandra Kelly.

The rise in technology means that domestic abuse is no longer just an in-person event. Tech has increased the reach of perpetrators to inflict misery on their victims.

This means that legal support has become even more significant when it comes to the issue of domestic abuse.

Each case of digital domestic abuse is different but the right legal support empowers victims to take back control of their lives, and protect themselves against stalking, intimidation, and harassment.

Talk to Holland Family Law for legal support

Holland Family Law’s dedicated domestic abuse team is here to help you escape your abuser and protect your future. We are discreet, offering reliable legal advice and support.

You can reach us by phone 0116 436 2170, email – claire@hollandfamilylaw.co.uk or social media messaging on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn. You can also get in touch using our website contact form.

If you are in immediate danger, call 999.